You ever develop PLAN B, just in case you get kicked out of the house?

Psychologist here. Let me lay out the situation for you, buddy. Your mate is very overpowering. She thrives on power, hence her job. Nothing gets her off like positions of authority and conquering one situation at a time, including men. she has to be desired, wanted at any cost. It doesn't even matter if the guy is that good looking. she will find a way to get what she wants. keyword: Black Widow!!! Surprise, she has a low self esteem that can only be pumped up by conquering another person. Yeah she will put you through the ringer. Best thing you can do is move far away and then present the pics when she can't mess with you and try to win. Separate totally, do not get personal with your subjects, keep the question at hand on target. do not meet with her alone at your own physical risk. She will be satisfied and try to ruin your life. Trust me on this one bud. Get far away after you have your Emergency fund in place. she will only be happy with a man who will ultimately use her up and conquer her back on her level. But this will bring bittersweet pain for her and she will turn into the very creature she hates unless she gets help. Lose her. don't torture yourself and stop putting yourself in the position to be painfully shot at emotionally and physically. Find someone who is happy with the simple pleasures in life and loves people in genral. Nice guys deserve better and shouldn't be looking over their shoulder all the time. Good luck.